A former Marriott coworker posted this quote on his Facebook page a couple of months ago. It really resonated with me for so many reasons.

In the most literal sense, this quote echos a conversation mom and I had when I was in the hospital recovering from my hysterectomy in early January.

We were reflecting on our recent move to South Carolina (just 12 months before, we had completely uprooted our lives and headed to a new state and city), and how lucky we were that our new hometown has such excellent medical facilities and professionals.

The quote and the sentiment it conveys also applies to the decision we made four years ago, to sell our individual homes and create a shared household while we were both still in good health, and in an area where we could remain active and involved as long as possible.

Most of all, the quote is a reminder that my cancer experience had some unexpected benefits, including a new outlook on the world around me. The past eight or so months have taught me (or reminded me of) the importance of patience, perspective and balance.

I’ve learned to focus less on the small annoyances, and more on the big picture: How lucky I am to have the life I lead, with supportive friends, loving family, a job I love and a beautiful home.

I am so blessed in so many ways. And while I would not have chosen this particular series of events to remind me of my blessings, I am thankful for the unintended outcome.